Checks to see if the specified user is a member of the specified blog.
<?php is_user_member_of_blog( $user_id, $blog_id ); ?>
<?php global $current_user; get_currentuserinfo(); if ( is_user_member_of_blog( $current_user->ID ) ) { echo 'You are a member of this blog.'; } else { echo 'You are NOT a member of this blog.'; } ?>